The Carthage, New York community is mourning the passing of Kirk “Coach V” Ventiquattro, a deeply respected lacrosse coach, mentor, father, and friend whose influence stretched far beyond the field. His death has left a profound void among former players, families, colleagues, and everyone whose life was shaped by his decades of dedication to the sport and to young athletes.
For more than 40 years, Coach V devoted himself fully to coaching and developing student-athletes. His record—458 wins and 24 championships—reflects an extraordinary career in competitive lacrosse, but those numbers only tell a small part of his story. To those who knew him best, his true legacy was built not in trophies, but in relationships, mentorship, and the unwavering belief he had in every player who came through his program.
Coach V was known for his larger-than-life presence at summer camps in Carthage, where countless young athletes first experienced his passion for the game. His influence often extended well beyond coaching sessions. Many players recall his continued interest in their lives long after they left his programs—checking in, sending messages of encouragement, and showing genuine pride in their growth both on and off the field.
He maintained close relationships with many of his former athletes, following their journeys through high school, college, and beyond. His mentorship was consistent and personal, built on care, attention, and a deep love for lacrosse and for the young people he coached. To many, he was not only a coach but a lifelong supporter and guiding figure.
Beyond athletics, Kirk Ventiquattro is remembered for his character. He lived with humility, faith, and a strong sense of purpose. Even while battling prostate cancer for nearly 15 years, he remained committed to helping others facing similar struggles, demonstrating resilience and compassion in equal measure. His strength during illness reflected the same grace and determination he showed throughout his coaching career.
Most importantly, he was a family man. He is remembered as a loving father and grandfather, especially proud of the time he spent with his granddaughters, who brought him immense joy in his later years. His family describes him as their coach, hero, and best friend—someone whose love and guidance will continue to shape their lives.
The loss of Coach V is deeply felt across Carthage and the wider lacrosse community. His legacy lives on in every athlete he mentored, every life he touched, and every value he instilled—discipline, humility, perseverance, and care for others.
Kirk “Coach V” Ventiquattro will be remembered not only for his achievements, but for the extraordinary way he lived, taught, and loved.